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Virtual Autism: A New Threat to Toddlers

Dr. Anne-Lise Ducanda manipulates toy ball

Pediatricians are alarmed that babies and toddlers who spend hours a day on phones, tablets, and around TVs can develop behavioral changes that are similar to the symptoms of autism.

The good news: the changes often disappear when the children stop screen exposure and greatly increase face-to-face contact with caregivers and playtime with non-electronic toys.

Two doctors in France are leading an awareness campaign, which they explain in this video.

“Screen viewing several hours a day prevents the brain from developing and generates behavior problems and relationship problems,” reports Dr. Anne-Lise Ducanda, speaking also for colleague Dr. Isabelle Terrasse.

“We decided to make this video to warn parents, professionals, and public bodies of the grave dangers of all screens for children between the ages of zero to four.”

The doctors had noticed more and more toddlers with unusual changes in behavior.

Many children had stopped responding to their names and speaking words, were avoiding eye contact, and had become indifferent to the world around them.  

When asking parents about media use in the household, the doctors were surprised to discover that almost all children with behavior changes had spent large amounts of time on and around screens—in some cases, ten hours a day.

But for most children whose families followed the doctors’ advice to stop the child’s screen exposure and greatly increase social interaction and play, the unusual behavior eventually disappeared.

Romanian Coins Term Virtual Autism

Romanian researchers had a similar discovery, one stating that “sensory-motor and socio-affective deprivation caused by the consumption of more than 4 hours/day of virtual environment can activate behaviours and elements similar to those found in children diagnosed with ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder).”

While Dr. Ducanda and colleagues use the phrase “Early and Excessive Exposure to Screens”, Romanian psychologist Marius Zamfir coined the term “Virtual Autism” to describe the screen-induced syndrome.

In Romania today, screen withdrawal is a therapeutic protocol for early ASD. There are Virtual Autism clinics and a campaign to inform parents about the problem.

Zamfir worries that children exposed to excessive screen content may lack a sense of motivation. “Children’s brains are used to getting pleasure without making any effort at all,” he says in this campaign video.

In 2024, a study by researchers at the UC Davis Medical Center MIND Institute found that toddlers showing developmental delays, who also have autism in the family, tend to develop autism-like symptoms more often if they viewed screens as babies.

According to the study, “Children with Autism and ADHD Concerns outcomes experienced significantly more screen exposure at 18 months than children without autism or elevated symptoms of ADHD.”

In Japan, in a 2022 study of more than 84,000 Japanese babies and their mothers, “among boys, longer screen time at 1 year of age was significantly associated with autism spectrum disorder at 3 years of age.”

“With the rapid increase in device usage,” concluded the authors, “it is necessary to review the health effects of screen time on infants and to control excessive screen time.” 

Screen Viewing Tied to Brain Changes

A brain study seems to bear out the behavioral indicators.

Cincinnati Children’s Hospital researchers show evidence in JAMA Pediatrics that young children who spend more than two hours a day on screens have less brain white matter.

The brain’s white matter is responsible for thought processing and organization, as well as other vital functions.

“Think of white matter as cables, sort of like telephone lines that are connecting the various parts of the brain so they can talk to each other,” study author Dr. John Hutton told CNN.

“These are tracks that we know are involved with language and literacy,” he continued. “And these were the ones relatively underdeveloped in these kids with more screen time.”

47 healthy toddlers were studied. Screen exposure among them ranged from zero to about five hours a day.

In their report, the study authors did not make a connection to virtual autism nor did they specifically mention autistic-like symptoms.

Astronomical Rise in Autism Incidence

According to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control, in 1975—when VCRs first came on scene—only one in 5,000 children in the U.S. had Autism Spectrum Disorder. By 2016, as video on demand had become ubiquitous, the incidence of ASD had risen to one child in 68.

The CDC now estimates the rate is one child in every 36. 

Until very recently, “AV (audio-visual) exposure in infancy has been overlooked” as a risk factor for autism, according to research ophthalmologist Karen Frankel Heffler of Drexel University College of Medicine.

As she writes in the journal Medical Hypotheses, “There has been an explosion in viewing opportunities for infants over the past 25 years, which parallels the rise in autism.”

“Attention in the vulnerable infant is drawn away from healthy social interactions toward TV, computer screens, and electronic toys,” according to Heffler.

Social Interaction Counteracts Screen Effects

In early 2020, JAMA Pediatrics published an analysis Heffler co-authored finding that babies who viewed TV and videos at age one had a slightly greater chance of displaying autistic-like symptoms than non-TV watching babies by the age of two.

Conversely, Heffler reports, “less screen exposure and more parent-child play at 12 months of age were associated with fewer ASD-like symptoms at 2 years of age.”

In 2022, Heffler’s team published a pilot intervention involving 9 children between 1 1/2 and 3 1/2 years of age who had an ASD diagnosis and watched at least 2 hours of screen media a day.

As the study shows, when social interaction and play replaced screen time, “Children’s screen viewing decreased from an average of 5.6 hours/day prior to intervention to 5 min/day during the study.

There were also significant improvements in core autism symptoms and parent stress from pre- to post-intervention.

Heffler’s team also published a case study of two toddlers with an ASD diagnosis who had “marked improvements in developmental trajectories” when screen time stopped and social time increased. 

Australian research also shows babies with early signs of autism can avoid an autism diagnosis if parents learn communication skills through video feedback. 

Researcher Tells Son’s Story of Virtual Autism

At the first-ever Children’s Screen Time Action Network conference, I happened to meet Dr. Heffler’s research associate, Lori Frome, M.Ed.

Frome is an autism treatment specialist who discovered, also by chance, that one of her young patient’s symptoms gradually disappeared with an end in screen viewing.

Frome then tried the same treatment on her own young son, who also had an ASD diagnosis.

Over the course of several months, instead of screen viewing, her son greatly increased his face-to-face interaction with family members as well as his independent play time.

The result: “a complete developmental trajectory change in the core deficits of ASD,” as Frome describes in this video.

In other words, her son gradually became developmentally typical for his age. 

Toddlers Become Dependent on Screens

Screen media has a “very addictive power,” says Dr. Ducanda. “Little by little the child can no longer do without and demands it more and more. If the parents try and withdraw him, he can go into a real meltdown.”

Doctors Ducanda and Terrasse contend that heavy doses of screen time affect what would be, in pre-digital times, the natural wiring of a child’s brain.

Watching a ball move on a screen, for instance, does not register in a child’s mind the same way it does when physically handling a ball. Says Dr. Ducanda: “The small child’s brain cannot develop without this sense of touch.”

Dr. Andrew Doan, an ophthalmologist and neuroscientist, produced this video to explain Virtual Autism and how to limit early-life screen viewing.

In this TEDx talk, I discuss the importance of secure emotional attachments between parents and their babies and how digital device use can interfere with early relational health. 

Avoiding Virtual Autism

So, what’s a parent to do?

For one thing: respect the child’s basic developmental needs.

So babies and toddlers can learn to speak, reason, and develop crucial social skills, they need face-to-face interaction with loving people and to use all their senses as often as they can.

A study from Iran proves the power of parent interaction and play.

Investigators selected 12 toddlers with autistic-like symptoms who had spent half their waking hours on screen devices. Their parents had 8 weeks of lessons in how to play with their children, with an emphasis on eye-to-eye contact, loving touch, and continuous communication.

At the end of the two-month period, the children’s screen time had shrunk to a bare minimum. They had much less ASD-like behavior and brain studies showed ASD-like readings returned to nearly normal.

Screen time duration drops in Journal of Asian Psychiatry Study from Iran

The investigators say consistency is the key.

Parents need to stick with high-touch, high-talk interaction all day every day throughout the child’s waking hours and to keep screens off.

Official Recommendations Urge Screen Avoidance

The American Academy of Pediatrics advises that a baby or toddler never use a screen alone. Caregivers should limit a child’s screen exposure to video calls with other loved ones.   

Preschoolers should have no more than one hour of screen media per day “to allow children ample time to engage in other activities important to their health and development.”

The World Health Organization agrees that, for the sake of their health and proper brain formation, children under age one should have no exposure to screens.

Life Balance Guidelines for Infants from the World Health Organization

Early Childhood is Unique Opportunity

When you look through Today’s lens, early childhood has become a once-in-a-lifetime pre-digital opportunity.

As I write in The Durable Human Manifesto: Practical Wisdom for Living and Parenting in the Digital Age, each child begins life as a “wild human”—as free and unplugged as any other animal.

“When toddlers range around, freely using all of their senses to examine, taste and play with whatever they choose, they are making rich and lifelong neural connections.”

Boy playing outside with toy trucks

Recommendations for Avoiding Virtual Autism

So young children stay on a healthy developmental track, Dr. Ducanda, Dr. Heffler, and Lori Frome have these suggestions:

  • Talk, play, and read with child every day as much as possible.
  • Provide materials, toys, and games that require manipulation, such as empty plastic food containers and lids, stacking cups, play dough, finger paints, and a play kitchen.
  • Go outside at least once a day and make sure the child has time to play alone and with other children.
  • Use screens very briefly, if at all, when with young children.
  • Do not hand a phone or tablet to a baby or young child.
  • Keep TV off around kids under age four, even if it’s on in the background and child doesn’t seem to be paying attention.
  • Explain to family members and caregivers why these measures are essential to a child’s healthy development, durability, and well-being.
Great grandfather plays on floor with great grandson

Dr. Heffler points out in her research that characteristics that may resemble those associated with autism in very young children can have a variety of causes.

If symptoms do arise, Dr. Ducanda and her colleagues recommend keeping the child away from all screens for at least a month, which will require the cooperation of every household member.

After that, she claims, ASD-like problems in many children may “miraculously disappear or diminish considerably.”

Conversely, if a child has a full, well-balanced life with very minimal screen exposure, these types of symptoms may never emerge.

Parent Resources

You can watch an interview with an American mother who came forward after discovering information on this post to tell the story of how her 14-month-old son developed and overcame screen-induced syndrome. 

AutismandScreens.org has links to research, researchers, and resources.  

Also see my interview with Lori Frome about detection and treatment: 

Webinar Welcome Page "Virtual Autism. What to Look For. What to Do."

Finally, in this simple online course, I teach parents why and how to create loving bonds with their babies and toddlers as well as to maximize their brain development and language learning.

Note: This post was last updated January 15, 2025

About the author:

Jenifer Joy Madden is a certified digital wellness instructor, health journalist, digital media adjunct professor, and author of How To Be a Durable Human: Revive and Thrive in the Digital Age Through the Power of Self-Design and The Durable Human Manifesto. Her writing has informed millions on ABC News and Discovery Health Channel, in The Washington Post, Readers Digest and other news outlets.

Jenifer founded DurableHuman.com in 2009 and is the mother of three grownup durable humans, two of whom have little ones in training.

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Shweta

Hi Pls. advise if virtual autism symptoms be reversed in 36 month old. Its been 1 week we stopped the screen. Pls. help. What to do ?

ankur

This has been unanswered for many days. I have heard it fade away well when people have started as late as 20 months old. I do not have any real worls examples.
But baby brains are capable of changing. Try your best, a lot of human interaction, no screens, a lot of outdoor.
I have very high hope that he would heal, brains of children are capable of moulding. I wish you best

Fozia

Hi! Virtual autism reversal time for 3 years old and activities at home?

Parmjit kaur

I want to share my journey in detail
When my daughter was 9 months old I started tv cartoon ( not mobile) 7am to 8pm, inbetween 3 hrs her sleep time. That time I don’t know the adverse effects of tv.
We celebrated her first birthday, cameraman told me she didn’t look at camera. Next day I stopped tv and i was shocked she was totally different.
Symptoms
Hyperactive
Zero name response and eye contact
No socialisation
Hand flapping
No social smile
Finger flicking
Staring lights, wheels
All symptoms she had.

I cried day and nights. One day I visited listening ear therapy centre. I was not able to explain about her. They observed and told me she is only 1 but chances are high. They suggested me therapy Nd I paid 10k just for 10 days. What i notice in these 10 days when she saw cartoon image she showed more hyperactivity. Then i decided to avoid therapy because she needs to forgot all previous stuff.

In oct November month i shifted to my mom home and this months her symptoms faded but not hyperactivity.

Nov month she called her first word veera( brother)
Feb month fast time she called me mumma functionally
Now she speaks

Now
Zero symptoms
Totally recovered

She is now 27 months old. She speaks phrase nd very clever girl. When she don’t want to sleep she start demands mama i want chapati, curd, when we fulfilled her demands again she starts mama i want to go to washroom for susu and poppo😂😂.

Before 1 year I cried every day and night then I searched on google and found durable human comments. Every night after my daughter sleep 10 to 2-3pm i just read these comments. My previous comment are also posted here.

Thanku durable human, ankur sir🙏🏻

I request to every mom plz be positive, patience, consistent. Va is completely reversible.

Ayaanley

Hi Parnjit, how long it took to totally recovered.

Parmjit kaur

Hii sorry for late reply. Her symptoms faded within 3 months but not hyperactivity. She took 9 months to fully recovered. She is now 1 years 6 months screen free and she is advanced as compared to peers

Ayaanley

Thank you so much for reply Parmjit. Another question please, when did you notice her eye contact improve. TIA

Parmjitkaur

First of all i feel sorry for late reply because of my health condition was not good.
First positive sign i noticed eye contact within 2 months.
Second name to respond.
Her symptoms faded within 3 months I remembered her each and every moment.
I have all videos and i m very clear she improved very quickly because of her screen months was only 4 and half but all day because of my bad parenting. Now touchwood she is very obedient and clever girl. She makes her own story. Daily when i go to home after duty i asked lot of questions and she answered me. She is now 31 months old and i m so happy. Parents please avoid tv, phn, any background music . I also avoided lights, background noise.we don’t even touch phn infront of her. Today i m on video call and she said muma plz don’t see phone this is for bad baby. U r not bad baby.
Parents plz don’t loss hope just give natural environment to ur baby they will recover soon mark my words. U need to attach with them. I know it is very difficult when other people compared ur little one with peers but avoid toxic people. Totally ignore. Focus on ur child. Parents can do anything to make all perfect.
If u people need any help please emal me on parmjitkaur0009@gmail.com. I m always available for u people. We are like a family.
Thanku

Ayaanley

Thank you so much for your respond – Appreciated.

Faith

Hi everyone I know I’m very late. I have spent hours crying and reading comments. I’m ashamed of my ignorance. My child has spent most of his days in front of a screen since 4 months and I am now learning and living through the effects. He is about to be 5 years old and I feel like it is too late for recovery. Everything that I have read says screen detox works in younger kids. I feel hopeless and mad at myself. If only I knew what I was doing to him, I never would have.

Hira

Your little one will improve. Here you need some formal therapies along with quality time with the child to bring his focus and attention to the level.

Robin

Hello Faith,

I don’t have a lot of experience with children over 5 doing the screen removal protocol, however, someone I am very close to as a child and still am today was nonverbal autistic as a small child. Interestingly, there was a period of time where the TV in his household was broken, and the family did not get a new one. He was older than 5 at this time. This spurred a period of stronger recovery than he was experiencing before. Coupled with ABA both at home and at school, and no screens and social interactions at home, he is now an adult that speaks, works as a graphic designer, dates, has a house and lives on his own, drives a car, goes on vacation, has friends, hobbies, plays multiple instruments at expert level, etc.

I think you still have to try it. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

Lori Frome

Hi Faith,
I don’t know anything about your son but what you have written. What I do know about virtual autism as a whole is that it is never too late to see positive changes. It may take longer, require more intensive one on one time on your part and more therapeutic resources. You may have some challenges with screen removal at school, but if I were in your shoes I would not lose hope and DEFINITELY try it. I would commit to a time frame that you feel comfortable with, but at least 6 weeks at a minimum, and see where that brings you! Don’t forget about the social interaction being super high as well. Everything you can do to involve your child in your life and routines is so important as well as involving yourself in your child’s play on the floor. I used this tool (below) with my own son and have shared it with many others for progress monitoring of symptoms by parents so they can have data in their decision making regarding removing screens and increasing social interaction as much as possible. If you live in the US/Canada and have access to ABA services I highly recommend that too but make sure the providers are not using screens or light up toys. https://www.childbrain.com/patient-education/the-asd-assessment-scale-screening-questionnaire/

Jas

Hi my son is now 3.3 years old, we stopped screens when he was 2.10 years old (33 months old). So no screens for 6 months currently, and currently we are 4 months into home based therapy.
Improvements thus far:

  • more affectionate, more hugs
  • understanding simple commands like close the door, eat your food, drink, etcetera
  • joint attention
  • started pointing 1 month into screen fast
  • able to use the toilet, however cannot tell me when he has to go
  • able to use straw, spoon, feeds himself
  • hugs me when my husband and I come home from work
  • able to hold pens, able to draw a circle from both hands, color sort, etcetera
  • receptive language is good now, and expressive language in relation to nonverbal actions is also better

I am concerned about his speech development. Home based therapies have really been wonderful and I will continue them, and now I getting him set up for ABA , ST to start within the next 2 months. Now with 6 months screen free, how long does speech take to come? He was received screens from age 6 months to 33 months – from 6 months to 12 months (4+ hours of ms rachel) , and then from 12 months to 33 months (1+ hour of ms rachel and super simple songs and the rest of the 8+ hours of background TV like sports/news commentators, minimal time outside).

Lilly

We are almost 14 months no screens. It’s been the most terrifying time of my life watching my daughter act the way she was and falling behind, but finally once she was almost to 1 year no screens language emerged. I never gave up. I kept pushing. The screen wasn’t even an option so I never looked back. I want parents who read this to know I understand the depths of pain you feel because I was there too. Do not give up. The screen time is what caused all these issues. My daughter had zero eye contact zero name response she never pointed she never said words. It was truly horrific. Finally awareness came, then eye contact kept improving and then finally one day she just began pointing 10 months after screen removal. Then within a week of pointing, words came. Now she says so many words, she can count to 10, says alphabet up to the letter G, and she barely started words a few months ago. She still toe walks which drives me nuts but I did that too as a child. Please keep tech away and don’t give up. God saved my child and I had to execute the action of protecting her and you can too!

jona_111285

how old your little one now? can you please tell me the story of her/his improvement?

Lilly

Hi! She’s 3 and 3 months now. Story is quite long but we stopped screens 1 week before age 2. So she’s 15 months no screens now. She started awareness first. More eye contact gradually improved. Stemming lessened each month. Now her only issue is toe walking. She finally says so many words. Always responds to her name. She changed so much. She’s still delayed compared to her peers but really she was exposed two years on screens heavily, so I cannot expect her to be just like those other kids. I do get her alot of therapy at daycare and she has a full schedule. We never allow any screens not even in the background.

Jas

Hi Lilly,
This is all very good to hear. At what age did you stop screens for your child? And did you use any interventions such as ABA, OT, ST?

Lilly

Hi! We stopped screens 1 week before age 2. We do Aba, OT and speech therapy but honestly OT has been the best because it taught her joint attention which you need before you can learn anything! We also got stem cells in March! We will be doing 4 rounds of stem cells total over 2 years. She says so many words now, but she’s still delayed compared to her peers. I am hoping one day she will catch up but I do think she needs at least 3 years no screens to be “better” fully. It really takes time bc i definitely damaged her accidentally by all the super simple songs she used to watch over and over. Now we are at ZERO screens for 15 months!

Ayaanley

Hi Lilly,
Glad your daughter recovered well. How long it took her, her eye contact improved her well?
TIA

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